BE HUMBLE.
A sign that we have good character and respect for our friend is that we do not mention their failures. Even if we know, we will remain silent as if we don't know anything.
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A really good friend usually brings a positive vibe to the conversation.
"How's life now? It must be getting better, right?"
A really good friend, when hearing sad or disappointing stories from their friend, they will respond in a way that does not embarrass them.
"Oh, that's okay, your sustenance is surely elsewhere, there's definitely a blessing in what happened, trust me it's normal"
However, a not really good friend will ask as if their life is better and will always be guaranteed to be good in the future.
"Hey, how about you now? I've seen you have done this and that, but nothing seems to work out."
It definitely gives off a negative vibe.
Do we really know someone's situation? Guys, be humble, because everyone deserves to have their choices in life respected, even if they have gone through many failures.
Be careful, we also might unexpectedly face an extraordinary failure in the near future. May Allah protect us.